No the pain will never go away, the pain is there to stay.The question is here what do you do with the pain? do you escape the pain or do you use the pain to explore how you can grow from the pain?
Like everything in life there is two sides the positive side and the negative side, even though all you can see sometimes when you are in a very painful state is the negative, if you let yourself loosen away from the pain a little bit and just explore the reality of whats going on around you the amount of positive awareness and growth can be priceless.

When something painful in your life occurs the pain is there for ever you can’t take it back.
The good news is that if you deal with the pain a proper enough way than you can walk out stronger than ever and, you can end up being stronger than someone else that never really experienced pain in their life.

When I buy a new shirt sometimes I will send it to the cleaners before I even wear it once. My friend asked me why would you send your shirt to the cleaners before you even wore it once its a waste of money, I answered my friend as follows when I want to look my finest a brand new shirt is not going to it for me because of the lines from the fold. I send them to the cleaners not because the shirt is dirty and needs to be clean, the only reason why I sent the shirt the cleaners is to make it look perfectly straight with no lines. If I wouldn’t send the shirt to the cleaners to press it I would be wearing a shirt with lines and I would end up not looking my finest.

I look at pain the same way, we are all human beings and we are all born imperfect and we are here on this world to work on our self’s and to perfect ourselves as much as possible but sometimes with out a wake up call through pain we can just go through life emotional dead so yes its true the pain might be very painful, but if the pain can wake you up and make you change your life in a positive way than the pain is the best thing that could of happened to you.

The reason why i like the story with the shirt so much because there is a another level of personal growth that you can take from the shirt story. when some one else shirt has wrinkles whose shirt will you see the wrinkles on first? of course you are going to see it by your friends shirt first because its directly under your eyes. but when you are wearing the shirt with wrinkles you don’t see yourself wearing it so its not in your face so its much easier to escape the reality. the positive side of pain is that if it can wake you up and make you see your own wrinkles on your shirt than you will start to focus on your own life and stop wasting your time looking at other peoples wrinkles rather look at your own and straighten them out.

Pain is a foundation that will last for ever, the question is what ARE YOU going to build on top of that foundation?