Every person is in their own control for them to decide if the are enough. If a person honestly believes that he is enough, and is in total wholeness with them self, than no matter what comment some one will make to them they can handle it because they are not relying on approval from the outside they already approved them self from within their own self.

Now what happens when someone can’t tell them self that they are enough, now they have an issue because they are relying on the outside voices to approve them. The main problem with this routine is that the person never actually make a decision of their own because they are always busy trying to please everyone else except for them self. what is the reason behind that the person can’t make a decision of their own? The answer is they don’t feel whole enough within themselves. when a person doesn’t feel whole enough within themselves, there is a few things different personalities will do, some will be extra loud and make more noise to try and build a picture that they really know everything and deep down they are hurting inside. some will come to a freeze mode and just totally give over the decision to the other party. The reason behind all these behaviors is because they don’t believe within their own self that they are worthy enough. It comes down to that if a person does’t feel worthy or good enough they have to ask their self why do they feel this way and they have to fix the core issue. once a person cures the core issue they can start telling themselves that they are enough and than will actually be enough.