People go to therapy seeking to solve a mystery that the therapist is going to solve for them. They are missing one point the point is as much as you want escape the reality of whats really going on you can not solve the foundation of where all is coming from.

People do not like to talk about their childhood they say how can my childhood experiences have such an impact on my adult life?

The answer to this question is very simple. when something happens in a child’s life and the child never brings full closure to his confusion so what happens is that the child is emotionally always looking for a fix but what happens when the ”fix” does not work out so they blame the ”fix” and not the core issue of from where the real issue came from.As they get older this happens more and more but they build heavier layers of escape and convince them self that it has nothing to do with their childhood.